Becoming More Than a Friend

So the two of you are spending loads of time together, but how can you tell if your friendship is steady-or soon to be something more?The thing about being friends with a woman first is that both of you have usually shared information about your past faults and relationships--information you probably wouldn't have shared if you both started out meeting in hopes of having a romantic relationship. If you want to start dating friends, there are some things you can do to let her understand that you are no longer interested only in friendship.First, never express your feelings directly. Don't tell her that you see her as more than a friend. The way you make the change is by her confessing her feelings for you.Don't be so readily available. Have enough going on in your life that no woman is a priority. Pursue your dreams, hobbies, etc., so your focus is mainly on yourself. Start noticing other attractive women when you are with her and commenting on it, but remind her that she is also very attractive. It's okay to compliment her like this while using your wandering eye. It also communicates that you find her attractive, but in a very detached way.

Talk about the things you require in a woman and give her conflicting messages that hint at your desire. This is a subtle way of qualifying her, developing relationship compatibility and will build her curiosity. Get her to talk about what makes a great boyfriend and what women want in a man. Listen to her and give her feedback. This will build her curiosity. Be comfortable letting her see your sexual side. After all she is your friend, but don't get hung up on topics like threesomes or you will seem like a pervert.If you decide you really want to go the extra mile and start dating friends, do it step by step by slowly acting like a potential lover. Don't waste time chasing a woman that is not interested. The last thing you want to do is mess up a great friendship. It doesn't matter what exactly you will choose to do, you are always taking a chance that you will get rejected.The longer she is thinking of you as a friend, you'll only have her in your dreams and continue to be stuck in the FRIENDZONE.

I Need You

तेरी चुप भी बाते हज़ार करती है



तेरी चुप भी बाते हज़ार करती है
मेरी आंखे तेरा इंतजार करती है
दीवाने दील का आलम क्या कहू तुझसे
बेबस होकर भी चाहते मेरी बिना देखे ही तुझे तेरा दीदार करती है

Meethi Si Dosti

Meethi si dosti ajab sa ahsaas
Awaz main jaadu, matwali baat

Kudrat ka karishma tera andaz
Khilkhalati hasi meri madhoshi ka raaz

Kya kahoon kis kadar tera hua hai asar
Teri deewangi ka hua main qayal

Dostana tera rakhoonga sang zindagi bhar
Tera ahsaas hai mere sang har pal

Tu na samaj khud ko tanha is kadar
Na tera dil tanha na tanha tera safar

Dosti ka jo haath thama hai sanam
Apna dostana kabhi na hoga kam

Pyaari hai hamari dosti pyaari yeh ghazal
Tere naam hai yeh ek paigam yaar-e-dushman.

Today I Found a Friend

Today I Found a Friend

Today I found a friend,

Who knew everything I felt.
She knew my every weakness,
And the problems I've been dealt.

She understood my wonders,

And listened to my dreams.

She listened to how I felt about life and love,
And knew what it all means.
Not once did she interrupt me,
Or tell me I was wrong.
She understood what I was going through,
And promised she'd stay long.
I reached out to this friend
To show her that I care,
To pull her close and let her know
How much I need her there.
I went to hold her hand
To pull her a bit nearer,
And realized that this perfect friend I found
Was nothing but my mirror.

In a Friendship

In a friendship,

We're free to expose,
Parts of ourselves,

Nobody else knows.
But the thing that sustains it
And sets it apart,
Is not something spoken,

It's a bond of the heart.
True friends are rare,

In a lifetime two or three,
I'm so glad it happened,

Between you and me!

In a friendship

In a friendship,

We're free to expose, Parts of ourselves,

Nobody else knows. But the thing that sustains it And sets it apart, Is not something spoken,

It's a bond of the heart. True friends are rare,

In a lifetime two or three, I'm so glad it happened,

Between you and me!

Friends are friends forever

Friends are friends forever together 'till the end. You promised me that you would always be my friend. One day something changed I'm not sure what it was. I lost you on that day and the reason was because it was a late dark night and we had a stupid fight. And for some reason, I don't know why, we couldn't make it right. We went our separate ways. This went on for days and days. I made new friends and you made yours, but that hole in my heart could not be filled for that hole was only yours. Times got really tough, my road of life was, oh, so rough. I needed friends, not the kind you see from day to day, but the kind that will always and forever stay.

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